Should i be going out with someone i don’t want to spend the rest of my life with? (Myspace)

So I was talking to some people about different stuff when of all things they asked my advise/opinion (strange isn’t it ) of but really what stuck me as odd/weird/cool The question went something like this

“If i don’t want to spend the rest of my life with XXXXXXXX then should i still go out with them?”

well i don’t have a perfect answer to this question but my main point is gave back to them were :

I kinda think that why go out with someone if you don’t want to spend the rest of your life with them

but on the other hand

If you don’t REALLY like anyone i guess there is nothing wrong with dating to get to know someone cause not everyone know when they start to go out with someone that they want to spend the rest of there life with that person. There are a few problems with the “Casual” dating
first of all if you lead that person on that your going out with and they think you actually like them then you can and WILL do a lot of damage to that person when and if you ever decide to break up with them you WILL hurt them less if you make sure they KNOW that you aren’t madly  in love with them of course this can lead to loss of friendships and hurt feelings also so just be careful when you are in a relationship also the other problem is “Middle School Dating” of please  will someone tell me what the heck is going on with this?!?! I dated in middle school twice and once it lasted for 3 months and other lasted for (i can’t rem) over 1-2 months. even though this is slightly better than the “period – to – period” relationships it isn’t that great. It is almost always that the people going out do REALLY LOVE each other. I didn’t LOVE anyone until right after school started freshman year. so yea if you are in a relationship for less than 2-3 month or more then there is probably a problem especially if you have had multiple relations like this. thats just my take on it. My sister went out with one of her friend for 1 period WHAT THE HECK?!?!?!? now that’s not a one month type period thats one school day not even an hour period! yeah so just yea my advise (to sum it up) is just be careful not to hurt the person you go out with. One of the girls i went out with in middle school is now my Girlfriend and the other girl i went out with (who never really liked me) is one of my very good friends so it is possible to still be friends after you break up just give it some time. it took about 3-4 years before ***** and I started going back out again and Emily and I started being good friend maybe a little more that a year after we broke up. thank for reading!